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Women are not always a first priority. I do that naturally. Otoh because of that the nice guy but…routine has happened more than once. The ones that hung on to get to that point of which we speak I think were genuinely pleased with the results.
Its just an observation. There is no way to know if you will cross her boundary, it might be very much different to other people.
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